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Two Videos: Our Awesome, Amazing Roof Top Tent Donated by Cascadia Vehicle Tents

Our very cool roof top tent

(Scroll down to view the videos on Picking Up Our Roof Top Tent and Set Up & Take Down of Our Roof Top Tent)

“I’m very, very, very, very tired, but I don’t have anywhere to sleep,” whines a sleepy Kimball (5).

“I know bud, can you try laying on the bench with Parker?”

“There’s no room.”

In a supreme act of kindness, Parker gives up the third row ‘add-on’ seat for his little brother and lays on the cold, hard floor of the truck bed.

They all drift into slumber, but we’re awake often throughout the night, uncomfortable and cramped in the tight sleeping quarters of our F250 long bed.

At one point I spy Parker sitting upright on the bench at Kimball’s feet, surprisingly asleep.

Later, he climbs to the end of my ‘bed’, not even long enough for me to stretch out, which I’m already sharing with Aaliyah (4) and baby Atlas.

I know daddy doesn’t have it much better – he’s squeezed onto the front seat of our crew cab with a seat belt in his back and a steering wheel in his knees.

Eight year old Kyah is probably sleeping in the most comfort, with the back seat of the crew cab all to herself, though she’s usually sharing it with a sibling or two.

True to our nature, and our Ready. Fire. Aim. approach to life, we’d embarked on our Epic Expedition before arranging adequate sleeping accommodations on our vehicle.

We did bring a very spacious and comfortable nine person tent, but with the cold weather conditions we’d encounter so far, we soon discovered we were much warmer squashed in the truck together, than spread out in our large tent.

Better to be warm and sleepless, rather than cold and sleepless.

It had been three weeks of sleeping conditions like these, and it was beginning to wear on us all.

But despite another sleepless night, as I lay awake staring at the ceiling of our shell, my spirits are kept up with one bright ray of hope – tomorrow we’ll be getting our roof top tent.

Our journey here began with an email sent out in search of companies willing to sponsor us on our expedition across Two Continents.

Bobby Culpepper of Cascadia Vehicle Tents (CVT) enthusiastically responded that he was interested. Now here we were, stopped in the parking lot of CVT in Bend, Oregon, anticipating tomorrow morning when we would actually meet Bobby in person.

Up early, as usual when your ‘bed’ is uncomfortable, we drive to Walmart for potty breaks and breakfast.

Back at CVT, we’re mostly dressed and finished with breakfast when Bobby arrives.

He’s friendly, funny and sincerely genuine – interested in helping others and authentically unselfish and openhanded.

Letting the kids help him out and explore his warehouse, they become fast friends.

Soon our roof top tent is installed, as well as an additional ‘luxury’ item – an awning complete with enclosed mosquito netting (we were planning on jerry-rigging a tarp, but I told you Bobby was generous).

Before we know it, we’re on our way again. I attempt to express my full gratitude – does he know how much easier this will make my crazy, nomadic life on the road?

That night, Greg, the baby and I sleep ‘upstairs’. We’re actually able to stretch out our full length! And our memory foam mattress (included with the tent) is like sleeping on a cloud.

Wow! Can life be so good? :)

Thanks CVT for making our life easier! We LOVE our roof top tent!

 

Picking Up Our Roof Top Tent

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Set Up & Take Down of Our Roof Top Tent

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Video: The Exchange Rate- What Are You Trading Your Life For?

As we drove along toward Yellowstone National Park, Greg was philosophizing about what we exchange our time, money and life for? Is it really worth it?

What would we rather be, do or have?

If you can’t see this video, click here to watch it on YouTube.

What do you think? What are you exchanging your life for that you wish you weren’t? What exchanges do you find worthwhile?

The Nitty-Gritty of ‘Living on the Road’: How We Do It

Note: This post answers how we ‘live on the road’ – during the in-between times when we’re traveling from place to place. It does not give accurate insight into the rest of our life, like when we spent 6 weeks at Laguna Bacalar, or rented a house in Panjachel, Guatemala.

Before answering questions about ‘how’ we live on the road, we’d like to clarify that we don’t necessarily suggest doing what we’re doing (why would you want to, it is insane).

Some people seem to think we advocate that others follow in our footsteps and live a crazy, nomadic life.

That’s not what we want for you. What we do want is for you to pursue your dream.

We also don’t have ‘all the answers’. All we can do is share what we’ve done, and hope you can learn from it (either as an example of what to do, or what not to do :) )

First of all, some background. We are making an Epic Expedition from Alaska to Argentina, and doing it with 5 children and in a veggie powered truck (watch the interview with Adam Baker at ManvsDebt.com if you haven’t already).

We chose a truck rather than an trailer or motor home mainly because of our past experience driving through Mexico and Central America, and our desire to explore ‘off-road’. We didn’t want to attempt it with a large(r) rig.

We purchased a 1999 Ford F250 because it has the 7.3 liter engine, supposedly the best engine ever made. We bought a diesel so that we could convert our truck to run on recycled vegetable oil, to reduce our travel costs.

 

Do you ‘like’ living in your truck? Will you do it forever? Couldn’t you just live ‘abroad’?

‘No’, ‘no’ and ‘yes, we could’.

The decision to ‘live’ in our truck was a choice we made in order to do what we wanted to do – explore two continents overland.

We’ve lived in Costa Rica, the Dominican Republic and India, and it was awesome. As we considered where to go next (we considered Thailand or Colombia), we realized we couldn’t pick just one place – there was so much we wanted to see.

Finally we just decided to explore North and South America (why not, we were already in Alaska), so we ‘moved’ into our truck to do it.

But, really, we don’t ‘live’ in our truck. When we’re not renting a place somewhere, we sleep in our truck, and travel in our truck. But we livein the world – the mountains, the deserts, the beaches. We’re not cramped inside our truck 24-hours a day.

Even then, traveling and living in a truck is not always easy and it’s not always fun. But we do it because of the ‘end result’ which we have in view. It allows us to inexpensively explore two continents.

Once we’ve accomplished this feat, then we’ll do something different. Maybe we’ll sell the truck and buy a beach bungalow. Or maybe we’ll sail the South Pacific, or perhaps study Portuguese in Brazil – who knows?

But for now, this is our life.

 

Where do you stay?

Our very cool roof top tent

Our amazing sponsor, Cascadia Vehicle Tents, provided a roof top tent for us, and that is where my husband and I and our baby sleep. The rest of the children (4 others) sleep in the bed of the truck or on a bench in the cab.

My husband made some modifications in the back, so there is an additional seat with seat belts, storage capacity, and a ‘bed’ with carpet and padding, and storage space underneath.

Our future plans include more storage on the roof of our truck, now that we have a roof rack, and perhaps an additional roof top tent, then all our sleeping would be done in the tents up top, leaving the truck bed for usable storage space.

Update Apri 2012: We removed the shell and actually built a camper onto the back of our truck. It includes a large bed over the cab for the kids to sleep, a ‘kitchen’, ‘bathroom’ and our office/dining area.

As to the actual physical location of our sleeping, that depends on the night. Sometimes we just drive late while the kids are sleeping, then pull over on the side of the road and ‘camp’.

Other times we’ll find a sweet little camping spot all to ourselves and enjoy the great outdoors. We’ve camped in forests, fields, farms, gas stations, parking lots and countless other places from Alaska to our current location.

Sometimes we’re invited to stay at someone’s house – whether we’ve met them online and arranged a meetup, or just barely made acquaintance at the park or at church (that happened a couple of times in Alaska). That offers a nice change, and the chance to sleep in a bed, do some laundry and get showered up.

We have paid for a campground once or twice.

Each of these choices have their pros and cons. Ideally we like to get to a camp spot early enough that we can enjoy our evening together, but you also have to be flexible while on the road.

If there’s a specific destination we’re trying to reach, we pull a late nighter, because it’s easier (and faster) to drive while the kids are asleep (no potty breaks).

 

How do you cook while on the road?

Cold cereal on a cold morning

Much to my enjoyment, I haven’t done much cooking since we left on our adventure. I don’t know how my husband feels about it, since he’s taken over the job now.

Update April 2012: I’m back to doing the cooking, now that we’ve figured out a better system, and have a ‘kitchen’ on the road. Plus, I’m the better cook ;)

But, after reading In Defense of Food, I’m committed to devoting more time myself to meal preparation (as well as to purchasing locally grown food – this will be a lot easier south of the border) so that we can have healthier fare while on the road.

To explain how meals are done, I’ll break it down according to mealtimes:

Breakfast is usually cold cereal. To this point in our journey, the weather has been cold enough that we can buy milk and use it for a few days without it going bad. Occasionally we’ll bust out the camp stove and boil water for oatmeal or scramble some eggs.

Once we get south of the border, to warmer weather, we’ll probably eat fresh fruit for breakfast.

Lunch is usually a sandwich – PB & J or Honey, or ham/turkey and cheese. Again, due to the cold weather, we haven’t had a problem with food spoiling (mayo or lunch meat).

Sometimes we’ll buy salads from the delis at grocery stores. Or maybe some fried chicken or broccoli/bacon salad.

I don’t like these options as much because they usually come with a lot of packaging, and as of yet, I’ve been unable to do any recycling while on the road. Usually if/when we find a garbage can, we just dump everything we can.

Dinner we usually try to cook something on our Coleman two-burner propane stove. It’s generally been something frozen that we’ve bought that day (hashbrown/buffalo cheese burgers; chicken; stir fry) or a can of soup; chili and tamales; hot dogs; black beans, tortillas and cheese.

Not necessarily the most ‘alive and healthy’ food you might find, but I’m determined to improve that on the next leg of our journey.

Snacks happen all the time – in fact I think, too much. Clif Bars, granola bars, applesauce, peanuts, almonds, apples, oranges – always snacking, snacking, snacking.

This is something I want to change/improve on especially after reading In Defense of Food. I think the majority of our snacking is due to boredom, or just because ‘it’s there’.

Eating out is not something we generally do, though we’ve splurged once or twice, and I imagine we might do more of it south of the border, where food is much cheaper.

Update April 2012: Since crossing south of the U.S. border, our meal times look very different. Fresh produce is very inexpensive, so we eat a lot of it. Eating out is cheap, so tamales, chuchitos, tacos and other local specialties are often on the menu. If we don’t eat out, then I make meals from scratch – usually including oatmeal, pancakes, crepes with fresh fruit, beans, brown rice, pasta, stir fry, or some delicious concoction made from local vegetables on hand, eaten with fresh made tortillas or tostadas.

 

What about showering and staying ‘clean-ish’? Laundry?

Only $5 for an unlimited shower

I think ‘clean-ish’ is an accurate way of putting it. It’s amazing how much easier it is to stay clean when you have running water- which a major portion of the world’s population lives without.

We do have a personal grooming routine. My major concern is that we don’t look like we live in our truck. I ensure this with our ‘get ready’ morning routine.

Each day, after breakfast, we get out the ‘get ready box’ and brush our teeth, fix our hair, clean our faces, clip our nails, clean out our ears, change our underwear and put on clean clothes.

So we start each day pretty much clean-ish.

As for maintaining that level of somewhat cleanliness, wipes have become my best friend.

They’re great for washing faces, hands, muddy feet, even dishes and utensils, not to mention changing bottoms.

The other life saver is hand sanitizer.

Besides that, we get ‘really clean’ by showering at laundromats, community centers, or when staying at new-found friends’ house. We usually pay between $2 -$6 to shower the entire family.

Laundry is simple. We keep it all in a garbage bag, then throw it in a large washer at a laundromat.

We’ve simplified our clothing to the point that we generally only have to wash once or twice a week, and it takes only about one large load, which costs around $5-$7.

Update April 2012: With our new camper, we now have running water in the truck. This really helps with staying clean, when we can wash hands, bodies and dishes. When we’re not staying in one place, laundromats and public showers are the best options – and they’re becoming more common in Mexico and Central America.

 

How many hours are you in the car each day?

First of all, I have to assume that this refers to ‘drive time’, since in reality we spend a lot of our time in the truck just eating, sleeping, reading, etc.

Up to this point in our trip, the answer for ‘drive time’ hours is  – too many. Some days it’s 3 or 4 hours, others it can be as much as 8 to 10.

Ideally, we wanted to travel nice and slow, spending hours at camp sites, reading, writing, playing and enjoying.

We have done some of this, but not as much as we would like.

The reasons for this has been 1) Cold weather – it’s been an unseasonably cold spring across the U.S. and Canada and 2) Problems with our truck – one tire has been wearing differently than the others, and we need to get it repaired.

We’d originally planned to have a long ‘layover’ in Utah – it’s where we have family and friends, as well as a storage unit with the few belongings we do own.

So we decided to speed up the first leg of our trip and get to Utah so we could work (on our business, and at some temp work my husband had lined up), and regroup for the remainder of our journey – evaluate what has worked so far, and what we need to change, etc.

In the future, as we continue our journey, we’ll spend less time driving. We’ll have things arranged so we can focus on why we took this trip in the first place – to explore, discover and enjoy the outdoors and time together as a family.

Update April 2012: Sometimes we’ll have a few days of hard driving to get to a new place we want to stay for awhile. If we’re not pushing hard, then we’ll just spend 3-4 hours a day driving to the next camp spot.

 

What about schooling? Do you have a ‘resident’ state that you check in with?

Real life 'road school'

Obviously, we do ‘home schooling’, or ‘road’ or ‘world’ schooling as it’s commonly referred to now.

We’d always planned on educating our children ourselves, and since we took off on our first adventure before our oldest was ‘school age’, we’ve never even thought about ‘checking in’ or letting any government agency know what we’re doing with our kids education. (I guess it helps that we’ve never really belonged to any school district.)

Although this might not work for everyone, the approach we take is to just think about what we want as the ‘end result’ in our kids education, and then we do those things that will help us get there.

Our whole philosophy toward education in general never needed us to ‘get approval’, ‘report back’ or ‘consult authorities’.

We have our children’s best interest at heart, we have ultimate responsibility for their well-being, and so aren’t we the ‘ultimate authority’ when it comes to their welfare? The educational model that we are following will surpass what is offered in the average government school.

The internet and technology today provides so many alternative options to the ‘normal’ school route, and home education in general is becoming so much more popular, that when our children reach high school/college age, we know that there will be plenty of options for them to choose from regardless if we’ve ‘jumped through all the hoops’ or not.

 

What about attending church?

Yes, we do attend church. With the use of the internet, once we know the area we’ll be in on a Sunday, we locate a local congregation and attend their services. It’s a great way to meet a lot of amazing people, and to hear from many visiting church officials whom we happen to catch.

 

How do you cover your expenses?

I shared our expenses for our first month, and while you were able to see how frugally we live, some people still wanted to know how we actually covered those basic expenses for food, shelter, etc.

How we do it isn’t just a certain strategy we use or a method of earning money, but an overall philosophy toward living that works for us but may not necessarily work for everyone.

Boldness has power

My husband calls it the Ready. Fire. Aim.principle.

We live by words such as these:

Are you in earnest?
Seize this very minute;

What you can do,
or dream you can do, begin it;

Boldness has genius,
power and magic in it.

Before every knowing if/when/how we’re going to do something, we start deciding what it is we would like to do – move to Colombia? Start a business in Hawaii? Take an epic road trip?

Once we decide which adventure appeals to us most – and determine that, yes, this is definitely something we want to do – we then focus all our energies on making it happen.

We start making all our decisions ‘as if’ this escapade we’ve planned is a reality. We no longer question ‘if’ it’s going to happen, we only ask ourselves ‘how’ we will make it happen.

We purchase the vehicle, eliminate unnecessary belongings, pack up and then move out. Ready.

As soon as we saved enough money for the first leg of our trip, we took off. Fire.

What about paying for the rest of the adventure? Aim.

We didn’t wait for the answer to that question before beginning. We don’t have to see the whole staircase before taking the first step in faith.

But the miraculous thing is (and this happens every time we undertake a feat like this), as we move forward, opportunities that were previously unseen, previously unavailable to us, present themselves.

We meet the right people, find the right solution, discover the perfect answer – options we wouldn’t have come across if we hadn’t taken those first steps.

“Concerning all acts of initiative (and creation),
there is one elementary truth the ignorance of which kills countless ideas
and splendid plans: that the moment one definitely commits oneself,
the providence moves too.

A whole stream of events issues from the decision,
raising in one’s favor all manner of unforeseen incidents,
meetings and material assistance,
which no man could have dreamt would have come his way.”

~ John Anster

 

So, to answer the question more specifically – so far we’ve used the money we saved working in Alaska to pay for our journey to this point.

As we prepared to depart, my husband was offered work in Utah, Colorado and Texas. That will fund another leg.

And as we’ve continued on our way, more and more opportunities are being presented to us for funding our voyage.

Work in Central and South America, and most importantly (for us), help improving and growing our online business and building our location independent income – our ‘long term plan’ for funding our travels.

Is it risky to approach life in this way? Maybe.

We personally think it’s riskier to waste our lives doing something we’re not really passionate about – working at a job just to pay bills.

What if we ‘fail’ and it doesn’t work? It’s a possibility. It’s happened before.

Are we willing to take that chance? Are we ‘ok’ with the ‘worst case scenario’? Absolutely.

I guess we really believe in the adage ‘where there’s a will there’s a way.’ We know that we can figure out a solution to whatever challenges we will face, financial or otherwise.

“Far better is it to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs,
even though checked by failure…
than to rank with those poor spirits who
neither enjoy much nor suffer much,
because they live in a gray twilight that knows not victory nor defeat.”

~ Theodore Roosevelt

 

Update April 2012: I wrote this post to expound on how we make money – 9 Ways We Earn Money to Fund Our Travel Lifestyle

Video: How to Have the Perfect Day – Do What Matters Most


I posted a few days ago about our ‘perfect day’ at Whidbey Island with FamilyRocketship.com

Here Greg talks about how doing what matters most makes our days pleasurable and memorable:

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The Most Important Question to Ask When Planning Your Trip to Another Country

What’s the most important factor to consider when planning a trip abroad with your family?

Is it plane tickets? Cost of living?

How about safety and sanitation? Crime? Infrastructure?

Nope. The most important destination determinant is visas.

Visas can make or break your trip.

Planning to spend six months in Europe? Depending on which countries you visit, that may not be possible.

Want to spend two months in Belize? Your trip will be cut short by their visa regulations.

60% of the countries of world do not require a visa for American passport holders.  But which ones?  Online information about visa rules are often incorrect and outdated — and almost never cite their source.

The Visa Book gives you all the rules in one place, perfect for planning your round-the-world trip or brainstorming about your next vacation.

The best part?  Direct quotes and links to the Department of State and Embassy website (when available) so you can double-check their data!

You could spend hours of your own time in front of the computer screen, searching the never-ending recesses of the internet world for the (hopefully) updated visa information for each country you’re considering…

Or you could save the hours of aggravation, and locate all the information you need in one convenient place.

As I opened up The Visa Book and started scanning through it, I couldn’t break away, and immediately knew I had to share this information.

Here was a concise compilation of all the information I spend hours searching for every time I’m planning that next big adventure.

Christine Gilbert has painstakingly organized a wealth of information:

Quick facts:

  • 253 pages
  • pdf instant download
  • covers over 200 countries and territories
  • Only for US citizens (although there may be Australian and European versions in the future)
  • New editions will be produced every year
  • Does not cover long term residency visas, work visas or education visas (in other words, this is for tourist visas only)
  • Cost is $10

The quick version only gives you the hard facts:

Country name
Is a visa required?
If yes, what is the fee?

The complete version gives you the same information but it also tells you:

  1. A direct quote from the US State Department website so you can read exactly what they say about entry requirements.
  2. A link to the US State Department page for that country so you can confirm the information has not changed.
  3. A direct quote from the country’s embassy or consulate website so that you can compare the information.
  4. A link to the country’s embassy or consulate website in order to verify or download forms.
  5. A link to the Lonely Planet page for this country
  6. A link to the Wikipedia page for this country
  7. A note about other visas (like resident or business) if they were mentioned on the embassy website.
  8. The country’s name in other languages as available.
  9. A link that lets you report your experience traveling to that country.

If you ever plan on taking a trip abroad, you need this book.

Visas are one of the most important considerations when choosing a destination, and The Visa Book gives you all the information you need in one simple, easy and concise location for the no-brainer price of only $10.

What can I say? If you want to travel abroad,

BUY THIS BOOK

The Recipe for a Perfect Day: Whidbey Island with Family Rocketship


A day this perfect only comes around once in awhile

2 cups of friendship
1 overflowing cup of sunshine
A pinch of hiking
A dash of exploration
1 scattering of wildflowers
Lots of enthusiasm
A handful of wildlife
1 rousing game of capture the flag

(and a smidgen of rule breaking – optional)

 

Mix all together and serve with a smile.

Life is meant to be enjoyed.

When we first sold our crap to move to Costa Rica, a feeling began to take hold of me.

The further south we drove, the more strongly I felt it. I wasn’t sure how to put it in words, but it was finally expressed with the statement that ‘Everyday should be like a vacation.’

You know that ‘vacation’ feeling – free from worry and care, and nothing on your mind except what you can discover or enjoy from that day.

Where will you go? What will you see? How much fun will you have today?

Your mind feels open, alive, enthused and light.

Of course even on vacation there’s still going to be sand in your swimsuit and saltwater up your nose. There’s certain vicissitudes of life that we just can’t escape.

Living everyday like it’s vacation is the recipe for a perfect day:

What it feels like is a passion for what you’re doing, and a deep affection for your family.

It’s joy welling up in your heart and overflowing until you can’t contain a smile any longer. It’s gratitude that warms your soul.

What it looks like is you living on purpose – making a contribution in the world that only you can make – doing everyday what you want to do, and spending time on the things that YOU have consciously chosen as your top priorities.

Wouldn’t it be great if everyday was approached with an enthusiasm for living that was hard to contain?

(Watch the video of Greg discussing our ‘perfect day’)

 

Our perfect day in Washington began with a stop at Anacortes, where we filled up our veggie tank at a little Korean restaurant. They were super curious in what we were doing and came out to watch.

Then we followed Sean and Heidi from FamilyRocketship.com down a secret passageway through a jungle rainforest until we opened onto a beautiful vista of the ocean below.

The secret passage

Enjoying the view

Our little monkeys gravitate right to this cool tree

We hike down to get a closer glimpse of the Dall porpoises we spotted

My ever enthusiastic 'pack mule'

And back up again

Next stop was Fort Casey where an old army bunker sits awaiting exploration.

Built in 1890, it was part of the ‘Triangle of Fire’, constructed to protect the entrance to Puget Sound.

Fort Casey was best known for it's disappearing ten inch guns.

400 men eventually manned Fort Casey, but the disappearing guns, which could lob shells over 10 miles, were never fired in warfare. During WWII the guns were actually melted down to use the metal.

Within 20 years, Fort Casey became the fourth largest military post...

and arguably the most beautiful.

Fort Casey became a state park in 1950 and is now open to the public.

We did get in trouble for (unknowingly) letting our kids climb on 'forbidden' areas of the fort.

We had a picnic on the grass, and Greg cooked us hotdogs, chili and tamales on our camp stove.

A game of catch...

a little running...

a foot race or two...

and finger food.

This was a curiosity that caught our attention. It floated from one horizon to the next. We heard it was some type of radar dome that was being transported from Alaska here for repair. It's was owned by Boeing.

Ahhh, then there was the wildflowers...

and the wildlife...

A red winged blackbird looking for leftovers

Some exploration

Baby Atlas

Trying to catch rabbits

Friendship

A rousing game of capture the flag

It wasn't until we were leaving that we read the Fort rules...oops

The day ended with a ferry ride back to Seattle area

Have you had a ‘perfect day’? What was it like?

Have you visited Whidbey Island or Fort Casey?

4 Questions We Asked Before Planning Our Next Big Adventure (And You Should Too!)

Greg contemplates our next move while looking out over Kachemak Bay on the Spit in Homer, Alaska

We knew we wouldn’t be staying.

After returning to the States from India, we moved to Alaska so that we could have baby number five.

My mother lived there, it’s a place we had wanted to visit, and it seemed like as good location as any to give birth.

Now seemed like the perfect time to go

But we knew we wouldn’t stay.

This is what we miss

Warm sandy beaches, coconuts and mangoes – that’s more our style.

So even as we drove the Alcan Highway through BC and up to the Last Frontier, we were planning our next move.

Hawaii? Colombia? Thailand?

It’s tough to decide where to go when you can go anywhere in the world.

When you have a big, important decision like that to make, you have to get real clear on what it is you want.

Here’s four questions we asked ourselves before planning our next big adventure (and there’s no reason you shouldn’t start planning it now):

1. What do you desire?

While pregnant and discussing our plans, I was really into finding a place to be ‘home base’ – a nice tropical location where we could get a home established, have a place to keep all our ‘stuff’, and travel from there.

So we considered Hawaii – it was tropical, yet stateside and would provide the luxuries I craved after the ‘hardships’ of living (while pregnant) in rural India.

2. What do you value?

After our new little one arrived – Atlas – I realized that the ‘home base’ theory was founded on pregnancy ‘nesting’ hormones – what was I thinking?

What we really value is exploration, discovery and freedom from ‘anchors’ such as homes, mortgages and ‘stuff’.

Forget the home base in Hawaii – as beautiful as it is, we don’t want to be ‘stuck’ there.

A remote island is a difficult location to be a travel base. Besides the immediate islands, there’s not much exploration that can expand from there, without a lot of expense.

How about Colombia? Or maybe Thailand?

3. What do you want?

They have fun no matter where we go

We knew some of the things we wanted included warmer weather, fresh food (like mangoes), cheap living and inexpensive hired help.

(I had a maid in Costa Rica and I really enjoyed that).

We also wanted to be able to go to the beach, and my husband really wanted to learn to surf.

Another thing we wanted was to go somewhere we hadn’t been before, someplace it would be easy to obtain (and renew) visas, and someplace that was less expensive to get to, since there are seven of us now.

4. What are your priorities?

As we discussed the options further, we realized that flying seven people to Thailand, plus setting up house, getting a car?, etc. would cost more than we wanted to spend or were able to spend right now.

Flying to Colombia would be less expensive.

But where would we live? What about transportation when we got there?

Based on past experience, although we could take public transportation (taxi’s, chicken buses, etc.), we had a lot more freedom, options and fun when we had our own vehicle.

In the Dominican Republic we took the gua guas, but we were limited to their routes, unless we wanted to walk – which was slow and at times strenuous.

In Costa Rica we had our own vehicle, and we explored that country and it’s back roads on our time and according to our desires.

We loved the freedom it brought, and the additional adventure and exploration!

We also recognized that it wasn’t simply moving to a new location, however tropical, that was exciting to us, but the discovery of a new place.

Staying in that place after exploring it wasn’t what we wanted.

Our priority was having the freedom to continue discovering, again, and again, and again.

Spending a lot of money to ‘move’, even to an exotic locale, wasn’t going to help us get that freedom we craved.

 

Where will our adventures take us next?

As we considered, and reconsidered our next move, we asked ourselves these questions again and again.

Analyzing, prioritizing, re-valuing, we were finally able to pin down exactly what it is that we desire, want, and value.

Now we had our ‘Big Adventure’ priorities established.

Once we knew what those were, we were able to plan an expedition that would fulfill our yearning for discovery and exploration.

So what is our next ‘Big Adventure’?

We’ll be officially announcing it soon…

6 Ways to Make Love While Traveling With Kids

Still in love 10 years later~Homer, AK

Today it has been 10 years that my hubby and I have been blissfully wed!

In honor of our decade together, and spurred by recent articles such as How to Have Sex on the Road and Not Wake Your Child by Christine Gilbert, Colin & Tracy’s It’s Business Time,  and Jennifer Miller’s, 7 Places to Make Love Before You Die, I thought addressing the issue of intimacy would be an appropriate topic.

Every year that we celebrate our anniversary, we ask ourselves, “I wonder where we’ll be next year.”

India~9 yrs together

Our ninth anniversary found us at the ancient ruins of Mahabaliuram in Southern India.

And number eight was celebrated as we moved into our new beach house in Las Galeras, Dominican Republic.

Where will we be next year?

Our children are still fairly young (our oldest is currently 8, the youngest just 6 months). We’ve been permanently nomadic for the past four years.

Alone time is tricky, and limited, but as you can tell by our newest addition, lovemaking is still possible, despite the constant close quarters. Read more

Discover the Courage to Live Family Life on Your Terms

Homer, Alaska

“If you limit your choices only to what seems possible or reasonable,
you disconnect yourself from what you truly want,
and all that is left is compromise.”

Robert Fritz

We received sundry and disparate responses when we made the decision to leave behind the conventional family life, sell all of our stuff and do something radically different.

Some people are inspired by our actions, determined to follow their own, but similarly unconventional path.

Others question the wisdom behind our madness.

A few are hostile; some outwardly cordial yet secretly disturbed by the non-conformity.

Then there are those who feel the need to defend themselves  – as though our commitment to live life ‘differently’ is a personal attack on their lifestyle choices. Read more

Outside the Walls of Comfort: The Unconventional Way to Really Begin Living

“Take the first step in faith. You don’t have to see the whole staircase,
just take the first step.”

Martin Luther King, Jr.

“Should I send it?” my husband petitions me expectantly, nervously.

He had just composed the email which would mean his resignation from his corporate position which he’d held for the past four years – the first four years of our married life together.

He’d taken the position soon after we’d wed. They were looking for someone in it for the ‘long haul’ – until 65.

That was us. We didn’t like to take risks. No commission jobs. No entrepreneurial endeavors.

Just a paycheck every two weeks please, with a side of 401(k) and health benefits.

We were ‘comfortable’ with our life. We knew what to expect.

But since then, things had changed. We had changed.

We started reading books. We started taking risks. And now we really wanted to explore, discover, dream. Read more

What our readers have to say…

I read your blog and almost cried. I am going to start traveling this summer and recently I have had a lot of fears come up about all the 'what ifs' - money, my age, etc. I was feeling particularly vulnerable this morning when the link from your web site came across my e-mail. When I watched your video and read a few sections in your blog I am convinced that this was a sign, you are a Godsend, and I am really excited. Thank you,thank you, thank you. Keep up your amazing work and life.
The desire of my heart is to be doing what you are doing. So I guess you could say I am living vicariously through you.
I love your appreciation and genuine interest in other cultures. I am always looking forward to reading your next post.
[I read] because you're an EXPERT in the area I'm most interested in. Living the dream.
I read to see it is possible. However, my husband is still convinced we can't do it, that you must be special... So I continue to read and follow, hoping for something to click for our family to also travel the world.
I enjoy reading your blog because you share the spirit of adventure that not too many people are brave enough to follow... I like to see how resilient you and your family are during the lows that would send most people packing home. My family and I get out a lot and explore but like to live vicariously through your experiences. Thanks and we will keep following along.
 

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